Deeper Wells (Part 3)

Rhordan Wicks

INTRODUCTION

As followers of Christ, we are not merely called to behave differently but to embark on a transformative journey of becoming more like Him. This process involves an inner renewal in partnership with the Holy Spirit—one that reshapes our very identity. In Luke 6:40, Jesus teaches that while a student is not above the teacher, fully trained students will become like their teacher. This verse encapsulates the essence of discipleship: walking closely with Jesus, learning from Him, and reflecting His character in every aspect of our lives.

True discipleship requires intentional commitment, consistent practice of spiritual disciplines, and a willingness to be moulded by the Holy Spirit. This discussion will explore the depth of what it means to be a disciple, the challenges of resisting worldly influences and the practical steps necessary for a profound, lasting transformation in Christ.

DISCUSSION

  1. In the ancient Jewish school system, rabbis only selected students they believed could fully embrace their teachings and become like them. The goal of discipleship was to follow the rabbi closely, immersing oneself in his teachings and way of life.

    a. Jesus calls us to follow Him because He believes we have the capacity to be fully trained and transformed into His likeness. How does this truth reshape your understanding of your personal spiritual journey and identity?

    b. Romans 12:2 urges us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds rather than conforming to the world. What cultural or environmental influences challenge your ability to stay rooted in Christ? What intentional steps have you taken to counteract them with Christ-centered practices?

  2. At FGA, we use the Tree Diagram (from seed stage to bearing fruit) as a guide to illustrate what a transformed life committed to Christ looks like. This framework allows us to reflect on where we are in our journey and discuss with others how we can move forward in our spiritual growth. Watch the video below and use the Tree Diagram Checklist to assess where you are at. [Resources: DE: LifeGroup Series | The Tree Diagram and Tree Diagram Checklist | FGA Singapore]

    a. Share with your group where you currently see yourself in this process. What obstacles might be hindering your growth? How can we move beyond merely knowing about Jesus to fully embodying a Christ-centered life?

    b. Reflect on the start of your Christian journey. Can you recall moments when God “quickened” your spiritual growth? What changes in mindset or behavior were necessary for transformation?

  3. Our training environment is not confined to church settings. It is woven into every aspect of our daily lives. God desires to refine and shape us in every area. To grow in Christlikeness, we must respond in two key ways: first, by repenting, asking what God is saying to us; and second, by believing and obeying Him.

    a. In Mark 1:15, Jesus said the time has come to repent and believe. What does genuine repentance look like?

    b. When God convicts us, how can we ensure the moment does not slip away? What practical steps can we take to embrace change rather than allowing conviction to fade without action?

    c. How can we cultivate a mindset that continually aligns our lives with God’s will and fosters long-term transformation (read Rom 6:13, Rom 12:2 and Pro 4:20-24)?

WHAT WILL YOU DO

Becoming more like Christ is not an automatic process. It requires dedication, intentionality, and full reliance on the Holy Spirit. Just as a seed must be planted in rich soil to grow into a flourishing tree, we must be deeply rooted in Christ, engage in spiritual disciplines, immerse ourselves in an authentic community and commit to serving in His kingdom in order to be fully transformed like Christ.

Our transformation is not solely for our benefit but for the sake of others, that we might be conduits of Christ’s love to the world. As you reflect on your journey, ask yourself: What is God speaking to me today? How will I respond in obedience and faith? Through continual repentance, disciplined training, and full surrender to the Holy Spirit, we can grow into true disciples who glorify God and bear lasting fruit for His kingdom.

MEMORY VERSE

The student is not above the teacher, but everyone who is fully trained will be like their teacher. – Luke 6:40 NIV

AN E1R1 Reflection

(drawn from Matthew 4:18-25)

Jesus invites people into a relationship with Him, and through that relationship, He transforms them for His mission. The disciples were ordinary fishermen, yet Jesus called them and promised to shape them into something greater. This reminds us that evangelism is not about having all the answers or being perfectly prepared—it is about following Jesus and inviting others to do the same.

Just as Jesus approached the disciples in their daily lives and called them directly, we are called to reach people where they are and invite them to explore faith. Instead of waiting for the “perfect moment,” we should actively invite others into a relationship with Jesus, trusting that He will do the work in their hearts.